We've been very fortunate today and yesterday. The weather finally cooled off a bit, from the mid 90s into the lower 80s.
That's a nice break because of the conditions at the orphanage. When we visit Alexis each time, we are given completely private time with her, which is nice. We often meet up with other couples who are adopting and have the children play together. We've met 2 couples from Israel and one couple from Italy. They are all adopting a boy (obviously, not the same boy!).
But our time is always outside where it is hot. There are many large trees on the orphanage grounds to provide shade, but underneath each tree you always find one of three things... dirt, weeds, or asphalt. There is no nice soft grass here on which to play. So, we get down on the ground and get dirty which makes it seem even hotter. We are thankful for the cool weather these past 2 days.
Alexis is really coming to life. We thought she might just be an extremely mellow child, but she definitely has a personality and a zest for life. Now, she whips her head back and forth when we try to clean her face. She looks away when we offer food and she wants no more. She squirms to get out of our arms when we wants to get down and play (just say no to kisses!). Those are all normal for children and we're glad she's showing us that side of her. She has still yet to cry. She did once for about 3 seconds but that's like a nanosecond in big people time, so we don't even count that.
Alexis really loves a freshly mashed up banana and Cheerios. We brought some sort of baby food the other day that had a squash photo on the front. (Food for Alexis is often a "surprise" too.) She ate two spoon fulls with the ugly-taste face and then proceeded to throw up everything she ate for breakfast. Needless to say, we won't feed her that anymore.
She also loves to play with the stackable cups and already has a favorite rattle toy.
3 comments:
She is absolutely beautiful!!! I am so happy for you!! I love checking this site to look at the latest. Y'all are doing a great job keeping everyone back home informed! It sounds like she is really bonding with you quickly and will make the transition perfectly! She looks so similar to Darian and Trevor! She's perfect!!Kathy H.
Dear Stephen and Pam,
Your living arrangements remind us so much of our sabbatical experiences in Hungary, India and Thailand! You guys are all so fortunate to have found each other—I think Alexis actually looks like you! Enjoy your special bonding time with your precious new daughter—Patty and Bob
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It's so exciting that Alexis is nearly all yours. She looks like a perfect fit for your family! It sounds like this whole process has been a really good learning experience! I enjoyed reading your tips on what to bring. I'm sure future travelers to the Ukraine will benefit from that info.
Ellen F.
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